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This is a forum where we can openly and respectfully discuss concerns, problems, ideas, questions and thoughts about everything from infants to elders, work and family, and all life's other components.



Thank you for visiting and sharing your time, advice and expertise with us!



Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Bicycle, Scooter and Scooter Safety


Hi all, I thought since the weather has turned nicer and we are all spending more time outdoors I'd have a few posts around summer safety.  During this past week (or so) of beautiful weather I have encouraged my kids to be outside as much as possible, to burn off extra energy, and promote physical activity. Obviously, this means we have to address bike and other outdoor vehicle safety since our little and big kids spend so much time biking, tryking, scooting and skating during the summer months. Here are some tips and reminders befitting the kids (and grown ups)! 




BICYCLE SAFETYSource: http://www.aap.org/family/bicycle.htm
Source: http://www.aap.org/family/tbikmyth.htm
  • Do not push your child to ride a 2-wheeled bike until he or she is ready, at about age 5 or 6. Consider the child's coordination and desire to learn to ride. Stick with coaster (foot) brakes until your child is older and more experienced for hand brakes.
  • Take your child with you when you shop for the bike, so that he or she can try it out. The value of a properly fitting bike far outweighs the value of surprising your child with a new one.  For more information on finding the proper fit, go to http://www.aap.org/family/bicycle.htm#choosing
  • Buy a bike that is the right size, not one your child has to "grow into." Oversized bikes are especially dangerous.
  • Your child needs to wear a helmet on every bike ride, no matter how short or how close to home. Many accidents happen in driveways, on sidewalks, and on bike paths, not just on streets.  Children learn best by observing you. Set the example: Whenever you ride, put on your helmet.
  • When purchasing a helmet, look for a label or sticker that says the helmet meets the CPSC safety standard.
  • A helmet protects your child from serious injury, and should always be worn. And remember, wearing a helmet at all times helps children develop the helmet habit.
  • A helmet should be worn so that it is level on the head, not tipped forwards or backwards.  The strap should be securely fastened, and you should not be able to move the helmet in any direction.  If needed, the helmet’s sizing pads can help improve the fit.

SKATEBOARD, SCOOTER, IN-LINE SKATING AND HEELYS SAFETY

Source:
http://www.aap.org/advocacy/archives/marskate.htmChildren should never ride skateboards or scooters in or near traffic.
  • All skateboarders and scooter-riders should wear a helmet and other protective gear; wrist guards are particularly important.
  • Communities should continue to develop skateboard parks, which are more likely to be monitored for safety than ramps and jumps constructed by children at home.
  • While in-line skating or wearing Heelys, be sure to wear appropriate protective equipment and only skate on designated paths or rinks and not on the street.

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

Here Comes The Sun...I Think!

Well you wouldn't know it to look (or walk) outside, but summer really is coming. If you are like me, it takes a set of really pink cheeks, before I remember, "oh yeah, it's summer, I need to be applying sunscreen." So this year I thought I'd get a jump on summer safety tips!! Check the blog each week for more safety ideas.

For sun safety the American Academy for Pediatrics recommends:

Avoiding sun exposure, and dress infants in lightweight long pants, long-sleeved shirts, and brimmed hats that shade the neck to prevent sunburn. However when adequate clothing and shade are not available, apply a minimal amount of suncreen with at least 15 SPF (sun protection factor) to small areas, such as the infant's face and the back of the hands. If an infant gets sunburn, apply cold compresses to the affected area.

For All Other Children:
  • The first, and best, line of defense against the sun is covering up. Wear a hat with a three-inch brim or a bill facing forward, sunglasses (look for sunglasses that block 99-100% of ultraviolet rays), and cotton clothing with a tight weave.
  • Stay in the shade whenever possible, and limit sun exposure during the peak intensity hours - between 10 a.m. and 4 p.m.
  • On both sunny and cloudy days use a sunscreen with an SPF of 15 or greater that protects against UVB and UVA rays.
  • Be sure to apply enough sunscreen - about one ounce per sitting for a young adult.
  • Reapply sunscreen every two hours, or after swimming or sweating.
  • Use extra caution near water and sand (and even snow!) as they reflect UV rays and may result in sunburn more quickly.

Thursday, April 21, 2011

Spring Cleaning and De-cluttering

Well here we are, right in the middle of spring and my house-inside and out- is in need of a serious lift! It needs scrubbed, cleaned, decluttered, mulched, reseeded, powerwashed, and just freshened up in general!!

I know at least for me, it feels better just to have the winter clothes out of the closet and spring/summer clothes in. I have various piles planned for departure to Goodwill, the Kidney Foundation, garage sale "stuff" all with the intention of de-cluttering but somehow it just ends up sitting around my house. The piles grow and shrink depending on my mood!  You know the, "I'll never wear this thing" = pile grows, or the "Am I sure I want to give up that sweater, it is a classic and so comfy" = pile shrinks.

Then I found some ideas for spring cleaning and organization in an online article that I thought I'd share see below or go to: http://housekeeping.about.com/cs/organizing101/a/4cntnrmthdclttr_2.htm:

The Four Container Method

Sorting Through the Clutter

By , About.com Guide

Find 4 boxes and label them with the 4 categories.
Trash
Give Away/Sell
Storage
Put away
 
Trash- This should include any item that you do not need or want, but that is not donatable or sellable. Damaged and broken items should be included in the trash if they are not worth someone buying it and repairing it.
 
Give Away/Sell- Be generous. Think about the uses someone else might get out of the items vs. the use it gets in your home buried in cabinets or closets. Consider the financial benefits of selling your stuff at a garage sale.
 
Storage- Put items in here that you cannot part with but do not need on a regular basis. Make an inventory of the items as you box them. Group similar items together. Remember one good way to clean out closets is to store out of season clothing. Get tips on proper storage of clothing.
 
Put Away- This should be your smallest category. These are items that need to be out on a regular basis. Monitor yourself by determining if you have a place for each item. If the items in this box will not fit into your home without cluttering an area up, try to reassess if you really need them. If you do need these “essentials”, try to come up with a storage solution that fits into your home.
Work on one room at a time to provide yourself with an easy stopping point for interruptions. When you come to a stopping point, be sure to throw out the trash immediately. Box up the storage box. Place the give away/sell box in the garage, or out of site. If you allow yourself to contemplate the decisions you’ve made too much, your brain can trick you into rescuing the clutter.

Things To Remember


    *Items are not equivalent to memories of the person who gave them to you. Pruning items with an emotional attachment can be very difficult. Consider carefully if you need the item to have the memory or emotionally attachment. If you’re not sure, consider storing items on a trial basis, or giving them to another family member for safekeeping. Think about taking photos of the item that will store more readily, but give you tangible proof of the memory. If you really feel the need to keep items of this nature, don’t fight it. Instead try to incorporate these memories into decorative displays or organized storage.

    *Get rid of old clothing even if it is the size you used to be and hope to return to. It’s tempting to keep them for when you reach your goal. Think about instead rewarding yourself with a new wardrobe when you get to the new you.

    *Don’t force yourself to keep sets if you only use part of the set. If you cannot break up a set, at least store the portions you do not use.

    *Keeping things just because you might need them someday may seem like a good reason for clogging your closets. Remind yourself that what you really need is space and organization.
So know your trash is gone. Your storage is packed away. Every item you’ve decided to keep is in its proper place. You’ve given away or sold everything else. Take a moment to look around your house. You’ve just taken a major step to organizing your life and freeing up your time and space. Begin enjoying the results.

Thursday, April 7, 2011

Easter + Kids= Candy, Candy Candy

In an effort to keep my own sugar intake levels down, (or at least down to a reasonable level), I've been considering the contents of Easter baskets. As I purchase items for 3 baskets, it's amazing how often I find myself saying, "well you just have to have peeps in an easter basket"...and then..."well it's not Easter without Cadbury Eggs and jelly beans"...and then..."hollow chocolate rabbits were in every basket of mine, as a kid...so.....".

By the time I'd get all of that there would hardly be room for anything EXCEPT the candy. So I've been reconsidering what I choose to fill their baskets with and have come up with alternatives such as:
kites
books
art supplies
plastic eggs filled with stickers, nickels, tattoos
bubbles
action figures
disposable cameras (my kids LOVE these)
age appropriate movies
AND a limited amount of candy


I'm sure others of you have many more ideas, so share them with us all!

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Who Has Time to Journal?

Hi everyone, hope spring is treating you well! Even though it's still chilly, it seems as though warmer weather is on the horizon. I've been feeling the "mom" guilt about journaling, or rather the abscence of journaling, particularly about those "cute", or "never want to forget" comments/moments etc. I just can't seem to find the time or energy at the end of the day to sit down with pen in hand to jot down all the happenings that I want to capture. For 2 years I've been telling myself that I would NEVER forget all of the endearing things my kids say or do. But I have; the memories have been trampled down by work, activities, sleep deprivation, busy schedules and more.

 I actually was experiencing some anxiety around it, as I realized fast time goes and how blurry my memory has become. And then... I went to a meeting a couple of months ago and learned from a colleague that she had created an email address to quickly record those precious, "unforgettable" peices of her daughter's childhood. I thought this was a great idea and quickly set up an email account for my boys, each child has a folder and as I move through my day, if I think of a funny moment or story, I just email it to that account! It is a great, easy, and quick way to make sure the most important memories are captured and can be shared or revisited over time!

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Cabin Fever

Hi all,
Not sure if you are experiencing cabin fever too, but I am (and my kids) are SO ready for reasonable temperatures on a consistent basis! For those of you who feel like you and are your family are "hold up" inside, consider visiting the play areas in our local shopping malls, Playplace inside select McDonalds', and indoor activity/inflatable facilities (most of these have fees associated but they are usually nominal) around town. You can also try the indoor exibits at the zoo if you don't mind bundling up!! Good luck and hopefully warmer weather in on the way.

If you have other ideas about ways kids and burn some energy while we're awaiting spring, please post!

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Spring Break is Around the Corner

Hey everyone, I've been hearing lots about where families are going for spring break and am realizing that Disney, the beach, and skiing in Aspen are all way beyond my budget. Does anyone have good ideas for inexpensive spring break trips, (even day trips)? I'm looking to do some fun and hopefully outdoor things with my family and I don't want to break the bank.

Thanks

Monday, February 7, 2011

Middle Child

My middle son is 3 years old, very verbal and pretty bright (from my perspective). However, he is MUCH, MUCH less focused than my older son was at his age. This is totally okay, I don't expect or even want them to be carbon copies of each other, but some span of attention would be good. He starts preschool soon, and he's very excited, so I've been working with him at recognizing his name, some letters etc. And even though I know he knows the answers, he won't cooperate. Can anyone give me advice about how to engage a bright, unfocused, curious little boy about something other than robots, rockets and Batman?

Monday, January 31, 2011

Lactation Spaces around main campus

Hi,
I know this post won't apply to you all but for those of you who are new moms, or just returning to work after having your baby, or have a colleague needing a clean, private, safe space to pump, I just wanted to remind you that we have several (24 to be exact) lactation spaces here on OSU's main campus. To view the list, you can visit http://hr.osu.edu/worklife/lactationrooms.pdf and if you would like to establish a lactation space in your building, don't hesitate to contact me and we can work through the details!!

thanks,
Katie

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Kid's With Learning Disabilities

Hello Fellow OSU Mom's :)

Is anyone else out there dealing with a child with dyslexia? I recently found out that my eight year old daughter has this diagnosis.

This entire process of educational testing and setting up an IEP with the school has been emotional & trying for my family.

When my daughter becomes frustrated she has an emotional response or she completely shuts down and wont try.

Is anyone else going through this and what has worked?

I look forward to your feedback & suggestions.

Friday, January 14, 2011

Summer Nanny?

I work part-time and am looking to hire a nanny to cover the summer months.  I figure my six year old is not going to want to return to daycare and I can withdraw my younger son (who will be two) for the summer while paying a small holding fee.

I plan to enroll the six year old in a few weeks of camp so that he can have some structured, enriching experiences, but mostly, I'd like him to experience a bit of the "lazy summer" I have such fond memories -- sleeping in, riding bikes, going to the pool.

Ideally, I would love to hire part-time (three days a week).  Does anyone have any suggestions on how to hire a sitter?

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Summer Camps for Kids

Hi all if you are looking for "camp" options for kids this summer, my work life website is a good place to look! Just go to http://hr.osu.edu/worklife/children.aspx

Have a great day and stay warm!

Monday, January 10, 2011

Camp Recky

Have any of you out there used Camp Recky as a summer care/camp alternative! I'm looking for some camp type options for my 5 year old son and have heard good things about Camp Recky but would love more feedback! Anyone??

Monday, January 3, 2011

Any other moms of twins out there on campus?

Hi ladies. I am a mom of a 2 year old girl and am expecting twins (girl/boy) in May. I am a member of the Columbus Mother of Twins Club already but wondered if there were any others in this group and/or around campus with twins. I will need to continue working at least 75% after the babies arrive (with a few months of time "off" of course) and was curious if there were others who survived/are surviving it! I'd love to chat and get any tips or advice on how to make this work.

Thanks!
Stephanie

Anti-Princess Reading List

Hi, ladies, and thanks to Katie for setting us up!

I was just talking about RAISING GIRLS with a fellow OSU soon-to-be working mom. She is determined not to raise any prissy, ready-for-princely-rescue offspring, and I remembered the "Anti-Princess Reading List." I'm posting it for all, courtesy Mommy Tracked.
(this is my first blog post ever, so I hope the link comes through...)

Laura

Hot Topics

Hey all, I have 3 boys ages 4, 3, and 2. So I  know the hot topics surrounding those ages, but I'd like to hear feedback from you all about the hot topics facing your children based on their age, grade, interest, educational needs. Please comment back about the issues you would like to discuss on this blog!